Comparison - Contrast
Just a couple of generations ago, a man here in the States romanced and later married the girl next door, and he stayed married. He got a job in the same field most of the other men in his family were in, and he raised his children in his home-town, where they grew up surrounded by cousins, aunts, uncles, and grandparents. He went to church, paid his tithes, went out once a week with the guys. He worked hard, provided for his children, avoided excess, and saved for retirement. And his life was set up such that he felt it was necessary to be a better man than his father was, and provide a better life for his children than he had.
Today, most men can't remember the name of the girl next door, probably because there were so many of them...ours is such a mobile society. Instead of romance and courtships, he substitutes a quickie with a woman he met in a bar, or on a plane, or at one of his kids' Little League games. Children grow up isolated from their extended family. Radio, television, and political personalities are the high priests of our society, and Truth is the sacrifical lamb they offer upon the altar of Reality TV. The suffering of others has become our entertainment, covetousness and excess are customary, and financial planning typically involves buying a lotto ticket. And today, men wish they were half the men their fathers were, feeling diminished because they and their wives have to work like dogs in order to provide that mythical 'better life' for their children.
And where once we loved people and used things,
Today, we love things and use people.
Today, most men can't remember the name of the girl next door, probably because there were so many of them...ours is such a mobile society. Instead of romance and courtships, he substitutes a quickie with a woman he met in a bar, or on a plane, or at one of his kids' Little League games. Children grow up isolated from their extended family. Radio, television, and political personalities are the high priests of our society, and Truth is the sacrifical lamb they offer upon the altar of Reality TV. The suffering of others has become our entertainment, covetousness and excess are customary, and financial planning typically involves buying a lotto ticket. And today, men wish they were half the men their fathers were, feeling diminished because they and their wives have to work like dogs in order to provide that mythical 'better life' for their children.
Today, we love things and use people.
posted by KR | 9/07/2005 07:23:00 PM
2 Comments:
The masses have always been a place where the worst comes out in people. Mobs rarely do nice things.
Today's culture is one of constant mob thinking. We are bombarded with TV and expectations about life given us by movies and superstars. We see the happy life as the one with gorgeous people and full social schedules. We don't see the mundane realities of our lives in our experience of other people's lives (TV), so we can't appreciate what we have. We can only expect more and be disappointed.
kelly, your words mirror my own thoughts. and quite eloquently.
the day oprah decided to make dr. phil a celebrity was the beginning of the end. :-)
some reality tv, however, i like. it's like a vicious psychology class. to see how people react and interact is fascinating. to see that under duress, more fascinating still. hey, they signed up for it.
and as usual, spock (curiousdragon), you're right on the money with the mob mentality.
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